L U G P A U B Moob Kwm tsis pub sis yuav Moob Kwm Hmong Kue cannot marry to Hmong Kue |
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Qha rua tej miv tub miv nyuas paub tas Moob Kwm rov sis yuav Moob Kwm ua txij ua nkawm tsis tau. Qhov nuav yog Moob txuj kev lig kev cai tsis has peb Moob Kwm xwb, lwm xeem Moob los tuab yaam nkaus. Tsi taag le, peb Moob Kwm txheej laug yaav ntuj thau tau zeem lwm xeem Moob ntau xeem ua kwv tij. Kev zeem lwm xeem ua kwv tij nuav tsis paub tas yog txij thaum twg lug hab lub hauv paug yog lug le caag. Tab sis qha tau tseeb rua mej tsoom miv tub miv ntxhais kuas paub tas lwm xeem Moob kws peb Moob Kwm zeem ua kwv tij yog muaj xws le: 1. Moob xeem Khaab 2. Moob xeem Thoj 3. Moob xeem Lauj Yog zeem lwm xeem Moob ua kwv tij lawm ces tsis pub tej tub ntxhais sis yuav ua txij ua nkawm ib yaam le Moob Kwm tsis pub sis yuav Moob Kwm hab. Ua ntej mej cov tub cov ntxhais yuav sis thaam ua nkauj ua nraug, mej yuav tsum paub mej tug hluas nkauj los sis tug hluas nraug lub xeem. Tab sis kev caiv tsis yuav lwm xeem Moob le has ntawd ib lub teb chaws twg los sis ib paab pawg twg kuj yuav txawv lawm ib yaam. Nwg nuav muaj tej paab xeem kuj sis yuav lawm. Yog koj xaav paub tseeb ntau tshaaj nuav ntxiv, koj nug koj nam koj txiv los sis cov laug ntawm koj tsev neeg. Puab txhaj le yog cov yuav qha tau rua koj qhov tseeb. |
Our young generations need to know that this rule is true for Hmong culture not just for Hmong Kue but for all other Hmong clans. Same last name means brothers and sisters and marriage is forbidden. In the old days, Hmong Kue had relationship tied with many other Hmong clans for a long time. The reasons and when it began, we do not have the detail and clear information. The known clans that Hmong Kue have relationship tied with are as followed: 1. Khang 2. Thao ( Thor, Tho) 3. Lor (Lo, Lao) When we have relationship tied, it also means we are brothers and sisters and marriage is forbidden as well. Boys and girls, before you will have love relationship, you must know what your boy friend or girl friend's clan or last name. Marriage forbidden to other Hmong clans may vary country to country or group to group, so check with your parents or elders in your family. They are the one can give you the best information and advices. Treat these color code as traffic signals at crossing streets. |